Single and Married..Two simple words but still two difficult life…
Masa single..gatal nak kahwin…do everything to get kahwin..cari jodoh yg sesuai…dah jumpa..kenal hati budi, family… kumpul duit..tak cukup buat loan…buat checklist mana yg sesuai mana yang tak serasi..betulkan apa yg patut..behaviour..appearance..everything need to modified..not change but modified..!!! Duit dah cukup buat preparations kahwin..ingat senang??? sah je tak cukup…mesti nak buat something yang kita takkan lupa isn’t?? but yet ada je yg tak betul… ada je silap kat mana2..tu yg rasa nak kawin lagi..for men..oklah ada 4 peluang lagi..but for ladies.hm.. tu la skali…selagi tak der talak yg gugur..tu sebab girl ni lain skit..nak buat the perfect wedding..kalau boleh wedding of the year..lelaki kira ok jer..everthing they all akan cakap,”tak kisah my mom handle”..so girls out there klau partner u bersungguh nak buat preparation kawin that’s good coz he know u are the 1st and the last..tp klau dia buat tak kisah..sendiri mau ingatla…ahaks…
After kawin..married life..i ‘ve got alot of questions asking me..how’s married life…well how should i answered this questions..should i say..’it’s great..i have to do my mom’s house course’ or should i said ‘it’s worse coz i be with my beloved hubby everyday’…which answer should i say???or should i say my frequent answer…okla…or..bolehla..or not bad…the answer looks like so so aje…klau org lain dgr mesti ngumpat,’pity that girl, kawin mcm tak best jer,’…my reasons so simple…i never married before so let me live my life..for those yg issue that questions to me should be in 2 catagories, dah kahwin or tak pernah kahwin..for dah kahwin…my suitable answer is, don’t compare ur married life with me becoz i am different and i dont like to be compared..for those yg single…my answer should be…u all kawin la dulu..then questions back ur self..
masa kecik dulu…teringin nak besar sbb boleh masuk u..biler dah masuk u teringin nak keje besar bleh shopping puas2..biler dah keje and dpt gaji besar…teringin nak kawin..biler dah kawin????teringin nak apa lagi??? for me..of course teringin nak anak tp..sampai sekarang tak ada rezeki..that one something that i can’t hope..kalau Tuhan kata no anak then??? apa2pun i believe..apapun yg kita nak….Semua ada di tanganNya…Allahuakbar..
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